How to get a girl to like you over text

Hello my wonderful friend! Today's article is on "how to get a girl to like you over text". Have you ever been texting a girl and she just stops responding or she ghosts you or rejects you. And you have no idea why? It's not very funny, is it? In this article you're going to learn why that happens. And what to do to attract her instead of keep being rejected and ghosted. So if you want to learn that make sure you read until the end of this article. 


How to get a girl to like you over text 

Why do women sometimes just stop talking or reject you or ghost you over text? I'm going to let you in on a secret that's probably really going to surprise you. Most women, they don't do this to be mean. They would never ever intend to be mean. Now, this is not true of toxic women. I'm not talking about toxic women, because I would never teach you to attract a toxic woman. But most women, if she feels uncomfortable in any way, if the conversation makes her feel awkward or uncomfortable or just if she doesn't feel like you're compatible, that will cause her to not respond when you text and cause her to ghost you because she doesn't really know what to do or what to say so she says nothing.

 

How to get a girl to like you over text

Now is that how she should handle it? Probably not, but she freaks out and that's what she does. So how do you change this? How do you turn this around? No matter what the problem is when it comes to dating and relationships the answer is always to get the right skills. That's how you show her that you have the quality she's looking for in her ideal partner. That's how you stand out from the crowd. And that's how you get your dream girl. It's always skills. At the end of the day, your skills are the only way get the girl. So the way to stop being ghosted, the way to stop being rejected, is to have good skills. 


Now we're going to look over some of those skills that you can use right now to start attracting her instead of pushing her away. My friend, this is how to get a girl to like you over text.



Tip 1.) Pursue Her. 


One of the biggest mistakes I see men making when they text women is that they text her like a buddy, like a friend. If you want to be her texting BFF, then act like her texting BFF. But if you want her to see you as an attractive man that she wants to go out with, then you need to approach it from that direction. You need to be upfront with her about the reason you are texting her. 

For instance, a big mistake that men make is they just start texting her and chatting, they never ask her out, they never express interest, they never pursue her. And what that does is, it makes her think- initially she's like, "Oh my goodness, this cute guy's texting me. It's so cool!" And then she's like, "Wait, I think he just kind of wants to be friends." That's one of the best ways to end up in the friend zone. That's why you need to be direct and open and honest. Speaking of dating and relationship skills pursuing is one of the very best skills you can learn how to do. But It's very important that you do it the right way else it can come across as needy or aggressive, which you don't want.



Tip 2.) Game Plan. 


This really backs up pursuing. If you're going to pursue her you need to have an idea of where you see this conversation going. If you don't have a game plan that's how you end up just kind of texting her as a friend instead of "hey, I want to get to know you better. I want to go out with you, etc." Your game plan helps you know how to get to the goal, helps you know how to get to the desired end result, which is not being stuck in the friend zone but instead her being really attracted to you.

Now, not only do you need a game plan on how you're going to text her, how you're going to pursue her, but you also need a game plan for what to do outside of texting her. Because the truth is, guys, you can be the best at texting on the planet and really attract her there, but once you meet personally, if it feels awkward or uncomfortable, if you have no idea what you're doing or no idea what to say, then everything going to be in vain. This is why you need a game plan.


A lot of people think that knowing how to text a girl fixes everything. You just know the right line to text her and "boom!" suddenly she's in love with you. And the truth is, guys, that's not realistic. It will often get her attention, especially a toxic girl, but at the end of the day you've gotta have a game plan. 

A real high quality woman is looking to see if you have skills, the type of skills she's looking for in a partner, and if you have that game plan. Seriously, this is one of the biggest mistakes I see so please take this seriously. I see so many men who just think, "Oh I just need to know how to text her and then boom it'll all be wonderful." But the problem is they just get so far into the relationship and then it tanks. Over and over again and they never know why. 


So if you are sick of tanking, if you're sick of getting so far in a relationship and then all of a sudden she doesn't want to talk to you anymore, this is your problem. I will give the solution of this problem in my next video.


Tip 3.) Have Interesting things to talk About. 


 When a guy texts hers like "how's your day been? Cool." You know, if it's not an interesting conversation, she gets bored and she moves on, she finds something else to do. Instead if you're an interesting person to talk and you actually are doing interesting things and it's fun to talk to you. Then, that's really attractive. That makes her feel closer to you and makes her more attracted to you, makes her like you. So as you are texting women make sure that your texts are interesting instead of bland. 



Tip 4.) Keep Things Positive and Funny. 


If you make her feel good she's going to enjoy texting you and she's going to look forward to your texts. That's how you get her to like you and want to get to know you better. It's really easy, especially when you're nervous to maybe focus a little bit on some negative things like "Oh my goodness, I'm stuck in traffic. I hate it." Or "I feel like the work day is dragging on forever." And the truth is it's okay to mention things like that occasionally, especially if you can turn it into something a little more positive with a joke. But make sure you're mostly keeping the conversation light and fun and very positive. 


People enjoy being around people who are positive. It's much more fun to be with them. So again if you make her feel good when she texts you, she's going to want to text you all the time. Every time her phone vibrates she's going to hope it's you. That's what you want if you want to get a girl to like you over text. 



Okay, let's sum up what you've learned so far about "how to get a girl to like you over text". Number one is to pursue her. If you act like her friend and her texting buddy that's how she's going to see you. If instead, you pursue her, you let her know you're interested in her, you let her know you want to see if this is going anywhere, that attracts her so much. Women love to be pursued and it leaves no room for confusion. 


Next make sure you have a game plan. This goes along with pursuing her. Make sure that you kind of have an idea of where you want this to go and you have a plan for how to get there. This also applies outside of texting. If you text really good but in person it's awkward and uncomfortable it's not going to matter. Remember that texting is not a fix-all. Guys, I can't say that enough, because so many men fall flat on their faces because they rely too much on texting. Do make sure to read our other articles to avoid dating disasters and instead have skills and a game plan. 


Next when it comes to how to get a girl to like you over text make sure that you have interesting things to say. If you don't really put a lot of thought a lot of effort into what you say, it's boring. But if instead you're doing interesting things and you have interesting things to say she's interested. She thinks it's fun and it's enjoyable for her to text you. And make sure you keep things positive and fun. Don't focus too much on the negative things. Keep things on a happy uplifting note and she will look forward to your texts and really really enjoy texting you and getting to know you better. Always remember that the whole goal here is for her to feel really good when she hears from you. 


So, That's all for today. Hope you guys would have enjoyed reading this. Comment below how the article was and your opinion. Thanks for reading this article. 🤗

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